It's insane to think we are already in week five!! Seeing as I will be graduating after this quarter makes it even more unbelievable. This week I feel like I really made some "strides" in the dance portion of class (no tango pun intended). I have been having a really hard time keeping my loose foot on the ground. It has been frustrating for me because I feel like I am the only one with that problem and seems like such an easy one to fix. I think it is the ice skater in me. I am so used to having my free foot in the air whether I am spinnig, jumping, or just gliding in general. Sliding my free foot is a very foreign feeling. However this week I have been much more conscious of it and am able to focus on keeping it down as well as focusing on the move I am doing. The other thing that has become easier is reading the leads shoulders. Again I think my history of figure skating made this challenging. I only have ever done singles so relying on another person for cues on what moves to do next is very difficult for me. I find myself taking the next step even without my partners signal which I can imagine is frustrating for them. However I have been making progress and interpreting their body language has become easier and more natural. I am beginning to love the tango more and more and I am really looking forward to where we will all be as dancers come performance time!
The hardest part for me in the beginning of dancing the tango was letting go and just not thinking. When I am able to do that I am more able to connect with my partner and feel like I am able to dance the dance better. Another concept that interested me this week is when we were talking about dujovyne and the connection with the lyrics that some are able to feel. I think that this is a very interesting and very important concept to talk about when thinking about the Tango. I was even thinking about it before we had read her chapters on the lyrics. I found it very interesting what everyone in class was saying about it and I do think that if one does not speak spanish or necessarily understand the song they can still connect with the music, and feel the feeling that others are having. But I am still at a loss because I wonder if the connection one can have if they do understand the music is stronger than for those of us who do not. In the Tango world do those that can connect to the lyrics feel more superior than those that cannot? Do they view themselves as better tango dancer because they share a deeper connection with the meaning of the song? These are all questions that I am not yet able to answer but I find them to be very interesting and would be interested to hear what others have to say on the subject as well.
Wow, already in week 5... time flies when you are having fun! So far, I have grasped all the tango dance moves quite successfully. Now I have to work on my style and grace which I know will come to me when I have that "Aha" moment. Until then, I am focusing more on my posture, balance, and footwork. I have poor posture to begin with, so this gives me more motivation to keep working on it. Which leads me to my balance and coordination. I think the tango will improve my physical capabilities because of the amount of stretching and endurance that is needed to be a successful dancer. And finally, my footwork is improving at a very fast pace. I am trying different shoes to master the technique of "sliding" on the floor to match the different dance moves. In addition, I am feeling more in sync with the music and my style of dancing. At first it was difficult to understand the music, but now I am grasping the emotional, spiritual, and passion of the music. In time, I can reflect on how just listening to the music has changed my personality and attitude on a daily basis. It is a wonderful experience to see subtle changes in the way I approach music, dance, and interacting with others on the dance floor. I also found the readings by Manning very powerful about touch and the desire to touch. It was a soul searching experience because I could reach back into my past and find a specific situation where "touch" shaped my entire life. I would never think that I had the power to understand what, when, and how I learned about life through reading Mannings book. I can't wait to find out more about myself through the tango and our readings!
After four weeks of dancing tango, my thoughts and feelings towards this dance are mixed. There are things about the rules and traditions of tango that really irk me, especially the defined gender roles, yet I find the music and lyrics really interesting. I think its history as a dance and music, created by immigrants and African slaves, is fascinating, though this history is by no means unique to tango music; many other musical styles have been formed by this interesting mix of people in a new place. I am intrigued by the codigos and the cabaceo, and actually prefer it to the rules and codes of other dance forms. I keep trying to compare tango to other art forms that I know a lot about like music and theatre in order to gain some perspective, but I often find this more frustrating than useful. When we are dancing, I find it really difficult to turn my brain off and just follow. This may be because we are learning steps at the moment, and I therefore know what step comes next. Plus, I have always been a person who follows the rules, colors inside the lines, and often feels nervous when asked to go with the flow. At this point in the class, I feel like I am still struggling to breakdown these boundaries and just follow. Because of this, I feel like I am not truly experiencing the dance. It is a dance that is all about connection, and I’m not really connecting if I am still following my brain. Maybe I just need more time, but at the moment, I feel like tango is just not for me.
Week 5, and I'm really enjoying myself. There is so much more to tango than I had originally anticipated! I have learned so much, and have explored so many topics that I have never even considered before. Everything that we learn each week about tango makes me like the dance even more. I wish that in ten weeks you could learn to perfect the dance of tango, but sadly I know it doesn't work that way. This class has also made me reflect more on my experience in Argentina, which although makes me miss the country it helps me grow in a greater understanding of their history, culture, and much more. I'm not quite sure that tango has 'chosen me' because I'm not very good at catching on to the dance. I really do like all the components (such as the music and lyrics and moves) but I don't think I could become really good at the tango because the signaling between partners is a concept I still can't grasp. I know we've been learning about it in class, and I have practiced the moves, but I can't grasp it. Good thing I don't usually lead, but it's also hard receiving and interpreting the signals for me. Overall, I have had an amazing experience in this class so far. The time goes by so quickly even during the class discussions (which is a good thing)!
Wow, this week is crazy... papers, presentations, tests, quizzes, reading, work. Despite the craziness, we have to push through! There has been a lot that I've learned this quarter in Tango; a lot about the history , and the actual dancing of Tango. Much of what we've learned this year has refined what I've been taught in Tango previously. I've been able to fine tune, and better learn many of the steps that I've learned through Tango club last year.
Class seems to go by quickly, and the homework, (although hard to read at some points), remains interesting. This class has been interesting. It's unique in the way that we have the opportunity to learn about dancing both historically, and how it's done, and also discuss some touchy topics while offering unique viewpoints.
I don't, however, find myself an obsessive tango dancer like many of the tango scholars that we talk about. Though I do enjoy learning the dance, I don't find myself at a Milonga every night. I've honestly only been to one, and it was quite awkward for me. Perhaps it's that I don't have enough experience Tango dancing, or that I don't have enough time to practice. Either way, I don't think that Tango has "chosen me" quiet yet
I loved discussing gender roles in class. I think that has been the most interesting part about the class so far. I feel that my preconceived notions about equality and genera were challenged by Tango tradition. I still find myself in an internal conflict about the situation. I'm excited to see how else this class will challenge me.
Usually I like to wait until Friday to post my blog, because it allows me time to reflect on both Tuesday and Thursdays class. But Tuesdays class stuck out to me so much I wanted to write about my thoughts and ideas from it.
I really liked how we started the class doing a "milonga". It was fun to have the actual experience and I thought that it was really helpful to be dancing for the entire class while talking about what we read. This is because it is easier for me especially to articulate if not out loud then to myself about what I am feeling. How I felt about the documentaries and am really able to connect it to myself.
Also I liked not focusing on the steps. While I realize that it is important to know the fundamentals and get this down it was a lot of fun to be able to feel the music and get out of my head. I found that when I am out of my head I do the best. I also found that there is a balance with being in another place as well as being in the dance. In one of the dances I got so comfortable and drifted so far I stopped paying attention completely and messed both myself and my partner up. It was interesting to find that balance. I found a certain serenity in the Tango when we were relaxing and feeling the music.
I also have an even greater appreciation for the guys. Playing the role of a guy was not easy for me and I felt like I was under a lot of pressure. I have not had as much practice as a guy but I still found it hard to get the girl to respond at times and it just gave me an even greater appreciation for them.
Also Dancing with Ann was really helpful, as well as watching the others dance with her. I am a very visual person and when I ended up dancing with her I was imagining what my feet looked like as we were going across the dance floor.
Finally, I noticed something that was interesting when I danced with the guys vs. the girls. The guys generally have larger shoulders and hold themselves in a different manner than the women. This was interesting when it came to the embrace. Me and one of the girls I was dancing with, who did a phenomenal job at being the guy were talking about maybe the reason the guy is leader is because they are generally bigger than females. They have a different presence that I personally thinks makes it easier for them to lead.
Now, going into the sixth week of tango class, I have gained even more self confidence than the previous week. The dance moves really train my body to accentuate my posture, grace, and balance. In addition, I am getting a great work out learning how to twist my body, turn just the upper portion of my body, and to be a strong but gentle leader. I have also learned how to communicate with my partner on the dance floor. Even the slightest movement can signal a cue to my partner. For example, shifting my weight in the slightest movement makes my partner shift her weight too. This demonstrates to me the quote of becoming one "unique mass." In essence, both of us become one body and every slightest move we make, both of us can feel it. I never realized that until this past week because I was so focused on my own movements that I forgot it takes "two to tango!" When using my arms to guide my partner in the right direction, I felt more in control overall. I knew where I wanted to go, what moves I wanted to make, and I felt a general sense of confidence overpowering both of us dancing. It was like I was having a conversation with my partner using nonverbal cues. I have to master this technique of not talking while dancing because now I know more about what I want to do and where I want to go, which does not give me the right to start "telling" my partner what to do. I am learning more about reading people's social interactions on the dance floor. The cabeceo is really intriguing to me. When we were introduced to the cabeceo in class, it was hard for me to read other students' facial expressions. Finally I gave up and asked "Are you nodding?" It seems that in tango, there is not a lot of talking. I realized that if I am not ready to be quiet throughout tango and listen to the music while dancing, then I definitely need more practice. I am grateful to be taking tango because it will stick with me for the rest of my life where I can share my knowledge of the dance with friends and family. The tango is definitely a social dance where anywhere I go, many people will cherish my knowledge and understanding of the tango.
Week 5 was probably my favorite week so far. The two movies we watched for Tuesday were my favorite movies so far and talking about the embrace for this weeks inquiry was my favorite topic so far. On Tuesday, I had what I guess you would call a “breakthrough” with Tango. It’s funny: I think every person who dances the Tango has a type of relationship with the dance. And with every relationship you have in your life, there are ups, downs, good days, bad days, small quarrels, and huge blow up fights. Some days I have a great relationship with the dance. One day in particular I remember I was at Tango club freshman year with my performance dance partner and Tango and I were having a great night. I was nailing the steps, I was in tune with the music, and I felt excited rather than frustrated by the challenges I was working through with the dance. Tango and I were going strong and steady I felt this night. I could have stayed at Tango club for three more hours and never would have gotten tired nor bored. On the other hand, there are days when Tango and I are not having such a strong relationship. There have been days that I want to match my steps to the beat of the song, but I just can’t. Or I am trying to be present in the embrace, but I just don’t feel fulfilled by the embrace nor the dance. These are the days I would say that Tango and I are in a bit of a lovers quarrel. I don’t lose my love for the dance on these days, but I definitely do become frustrated and do not feel like speaking with Tango anymore that day.
So how does my relationship with the Tango relate to my “breakthrough” this week? Well, on Tuesday when Ann had us close our eyes, I felt really good when dancing. My leader was doing an excellent job showing clear intent and also a huge amount of variety in our steps. He was even doing steps patterns we never exactly learned, but I still was able to follow and not step on his feet! Then, Ann had us come into a closer embrace and still keep our eyes closed. This was my “AH-HA!” moment. The song that was one was one I recognized because Ann plays it a lot and so I have started to really like it. Then, I felt my leader dance to the music! I felt in tune with the music and with my partner. Then, with my eyes closed, I really did feel like we were one unique mass- one body with four legs. I felt the communication. I felt the connection. This was my breath through. I finally felt what I think Tango should feel like! It felt comfortable and not awkward and FUN!
The most striking and unpredictable feeling I had during my “breakthrough” relates directly to the embrace. On my walk home, I was thinking about class and thought about what I felt. Why did that feel so normal? Why did that Tango dance and that embrace feel so correct? I realized that ironically, I actually felt nothing. I didn’t feel the embrace at all. Usually when I’m dancing, I notice the embrace. I am thinking, “Oh his left hand is too far in, or too far out, or perfect”. Or, I am thinking, “is my hand too far over his shoulder? Ok yes it is, I will adjust it. Ok now my balance is better.” And even if I am not adjusting something, I still notice the embrace. I am aware of where our hands are, where my axis is, where his axis is, how our chests are aligning, etc. Yet, in this one dance I didn’t notice any of this. All I noticed is that it felt right. I think this is when an embrace is right. I think a “correct” embrace is one in which you feel so comfortable and contained in this “nest” that it feels normal and natural- like it is second nature or something. This embrace- even though I’m sure it was not perfect – seemed like what a “good” embrace should be. Therefore, perfectly enough, my Tango breakthrough had to do with the embrace. So, mine and Tango’s relationship is pretty good right now… were strong and steady… at least for now. ☺
The fact that we were in the 5th week already aside, the tango has taken on a great role in my week. I look forward to each and every class, and every opportunity I get to dance and learn new steps. With every week, I feel my confidence and skill set growing. It is exciting to be able to feel the progress of my dancing. I have already found myself with a growing passion for the dance. Along with that comes my growing excitement and fascination with the entire lifestyle. I can not wait to see how my feelings for tango will evolve in the coming weeks through further experiences.
It's insane to think we are already in week five!! Seeing as I will be graduating after this quarter makes it even more unbelievable. This week I feel like I really made some "strides" in the dance portion of class (no tango pun intended). I have been having a really hard time keeping my loose foot on the ground. It has been frustrating for me because I feel like I am the only one with that problem and seems like such an easy one to fix. I think it is the ice skater in me. I am so used to having my free foot in the air whether I am spinnig, jumping, or just gliding in general. Sliding my free foot is a very foreign feeling. However this week I have been much more conscious of it and am able to focus on keeping it down as well as focusing on the move I am doing. The other thing that has become easier is reading the leads shoulders. Again I think my history of figure skating made this challenging. I only have ever done singles so relying on another person for cues on what moves to do next is very difficult for me. I find myself taking the next step even without my partners signal which I can imagine is frustrating for them. However I have been making progress and interpreting their body language has become easier and more natural. I am beginning to love the tango more and more and I am really looking forward to where we will all be as dancers come performance time!
ReplyDeleteThe hardest part for me in the beginning of dancing the tango was letting go and just not thinking. When I am able to do that I am more able to connect with my partner and feel like I am able to dance the dance better. Another concept that interested me this week is when we were talking about dujovyne and the connection with the lyrics that some are able to feel. I think that this is a very interesting and very important concept to talk about when thinking about the Tango. I was even thinking about it before we had read her chapters on the lyrics. I found it very interesting what everyone in class was saying about it and I do think that if one does not speak spanish or necessarily understand the song they can still connect with the music, and feel the feeling that others are having. But I am still at a loss because I wonder if the connection one can have if they do understand the music is stronger than for those of us who do not. In the Tango world do those that can connect to the lyrics feel more superior than those that cannot? Do they view themselves as better tango dancer because they share a deeper connection with the meaning of the song? These are all questions that I am not yet able to answer but I find them to be very interesting and would be interested to hear what others have to say on the subject as well.
ReplyDeleteWow, already in week 5... time flies when you are having fun! So far, I have grasped all the tango dance moves quite successfully. Now I have to work on my style and grace which I know will come to me when I have that "Aha" moment. Until then, I am focusing more on my posture, balance, and footwork. I have poor posture to begin with, so this gives me more motivation to keep working on it. Which leads me to my balance and coordination. I think the tango will improve my physical capabilities because of the amount of stretching and endurance that is needed to be a successful dancer. And finally, my footwork is improving at a very fast pace. I am trying different shoes to master the technique of "sliding" on the floor to match the different dance moves. In addition, I am feeling more in sync with the music and my style of dancing. At first it was difficult to understand the music, but now I am grasping the emotional, spiritual, and passion of the music. In time, I can reflect on how just listening to the music has changed my personality and attitude on a daily basis. It is a wonderful experience to see subtle changes in the way I approach music, dance, and interacting with others on the dance floor. I also found the readings by Manning very powerful about touch and the desire to touch. It was a soul searching experience because I could reach back into my past and find a specific situation where "touch" shaped my entire life. I would never think that I had the power to understand what, when, and how I learned about life through reading Mannings book. I can't wait to find out more about myself through the tango and our readings!
ReplyDeleteAfter four weeks of dancing tango, my thoughts and feelings towards this dance are mixed. There are things about the rules and traditions of tango that really irk me, especially the defined gender roles, yet I find the music and lyrics really interesting. I think its history as a dance and music, created by immigrants and African slaves, is fascinating, though this history is by no means unique to tango music; many other musical styles have been formed by this interesting mix of people in a new place. I am intrigued by the codigos and the cabaceo, and actually prefer it to the rules and codes of other dance forms. I keep trying to compare tango to other art forms that I know a lot about like music and theatre in order to gain some perspective, but I often find this more frustrating than useful.
ReplyDeleteWhen we are dancing, I find it really difficult to turn my brain off and just follow. This may be because we are learning steps at the moment, and I therefore know what step comes next. Plus, I have always been a person who follows the rules, colors inside the lines, and often feels nervous when asked to go with the flow. At this point in the class, I feel like I am still struggling to breakdown these boundaries and just follow. Because of this, I feel like I am not truly experiencing the dance. It is a dance that is all about connection, and I’m not really connecting if I am still following my brain. Maybe I just need more time, but at the moment, I feel like tango is just not for me.
Week 5, and I'm really enjoying myself. There is so much more to tango than I had originally anticipated! I have learned so much, and have explored so many topics that I have never even considered before. Everything that we learn each week about tango makes me like the dance even more. I wish that in ten weeks you could learn to perfect the dance of tango, but sadly I know it doesn't work that way. This class has also made me reflect more on my experience in Argentina, which although makes me miss the country it helps me grow in a greater understanding of their history, culture, and much more. I'm not quite sure that tango has 'chosen me' because I'm not very good at catching on to the dance. I really do like all the components (such as the music and lyrics and moves) but I don't think I could become really good at the tango because the signaling between partners is a concept I still can't grasp. I know we've been learning about it in class, and I have practiced the moves, but I can't grasp it. Good thing I don't usually lead, but it's also hard receiving and interpreting the signals for me. Overall, I have had an amazing experience in this class so far. The time goes by so quickly even during the class discussions (which is a good thing)!
ReplyDeleteWow, this week is crazy... papers, presentations, tests, quizzes, reading, work. Despite the craziness, we have to push through! There has been a lot that I've learned this quarter in Tango; a lot about the history , and the actual dancing of Tango. Much of what we've learned this year has refined what I've been taught in Tango previously. I've been able to fine tune, and better learn many of the steps that I've learned through Tango club last year.
ReplyDeleteClass seems to go by quickly, and the homework, (although hard to read at some points), remains interesting. This class has been interesting. It's unique in the way that we have the opportunity to learn about dancing both historically, and how it's done, and also discuss some touchy topics while offering unique viewpoints.
I don't, however, find myself an obsessive tango dancer like many of the tango scholars that we talk about. Though I do enjoy learning the dance, I don't find myself at a Milonga every night. I've honestly only been to one, and it was quite awkward for me. Perhaps it's that I don't have enough experience Tango dancing, or that I don't have enough time to practice. Either way, I don't think that Tango has "chosen me" quiet yet
I loved discussing gender roles in class. I think that has been the most interesting part about the class so far. I feel that my preconceived notions about equality and genera were challenged by Tango tradition. I still find myself in an internal conflict about the situation. I'm excited to see how else this class will challenge me.
Usually I like to wait until Friday to post my blog, because it allows me time to reflect on both Tuesday and Thursdays class. But Tuesdays class stuck out to me so much I wanted to write about my thoughts and ideas from it.
ReplyDeleteI really liked how we started the class doing a "milonga". It was fun to have the actual experience and I thought that it was really helpful to be dancing for the entire class while talking about what we read. This is because it is easier for me especially to articulate if not out loud then to myself about what I am feeling. How I felt about the documentaries and am really able to connect it to myself.
Also I liked not focusing on the steps. While I realize that it is important to know the fundamentals and get this down it was a lot of fun to be able to feel the music and get out of my head. I found that when I am out of my head I do the best. I also found that there is a balance with being in another place as well as being in the dance. In one of the dances I got so comfortable and drifted so far I stopped paying attention completely and messed both myself and my partner up. It was interesting to find that balance. I found a certain serenity in the Tango when we were relaxing and feeling the music.
I also have an even greater appreciation for the guys. Playing the role of a guy was not easy for me and I felt like I was under a lot of pressure. I have not had as much practice as a guy but I still found it hard to get the girl to respond at times and it just gave me an even greater appreciation for them.
Also Dancing with Ann was really helpful, as well as watching the others dance with her. I am a very visual person and when I ended up dancing with her I was imagining what my feet looked like as we were going across the dance floor.
Finally, I noticed something that was interesting when I danced with the guys vs. the girls. The guys generally have larger shoulders and hold themselves in a different manner than the women. This was interesting when it came to the embrace. Me and one of the girls I was dancing with, who did a phenomenal job at being the guy were talking about maybe the reason the guy is leader is because they are generally bigger than females. They have a different presence that I personally thinks makes it easier for them to lead.
Now, going into the sixth week of tango class, I have gained even more self confidence than the previous week. The dance moves really train my body to accentuate my posture, grace, and balance. In addition, I am getting a great work out learning how to twist my body, turn just the upper portion of my body, and to be a strong but gentle leader.
ReplyDeleteI have also learned how to communicate with my partner on the dance floor. Even the slightest movement can signal a cue to my partner. For example, shifting my weight in the slightest movement makes my partner shift her weight too. This demonstrates to me the quote of becoming one "unique mass." In essence, both of us become one body and every slightest move we make, both of us can feel it. I never realized that until this past week because I was so focused on my own movements that I forgot it takes "two to tango!"
When using my arms to guide my partner in the right direction, I felt more in control overall. I knew where I wanted to go, what moves I wanted to make, and I felt a general sense of confidence overpowering both of us dancing. It was like I was having a conversation with my partner using nonverbal cues. I have to master this technique of not talking while dancing because now I know more about what I want to do and where I want to go, which does not give me the right to start "telling" my partner what to do.
I am learning more about reading people's social interactions on the dance floor. The cabeceo is really intriguing to me. When we were introduced to the cabeceo in class, it was hard for me to read other students' facial expressions. Finally I gave up and asked "Are you nodding?" It seems that in tango, there is not a lot of talking. I realized that if I am not ready to be quiet throughout tango and listen to the music while dancing, then I definitely need more practice.
I am grateful to be taking tango because it will stick with me for the rest of my life where I can share my knowledge of the dance with friends and family. The tango is definitely a social dance where anywhere I go, many people will cherish my knowledge and understanding of the tango.
Week 5 was probably my favorite week so far. The two movies we watched for Tuesday were my favorite movies so far and talking about the embrace for this weeks inquiry was my favorite topic so far. On Tuesday, I had what I guess you would call a “breakthrough” with Tango. It’s funny: I think every person who dances the Tango has a type of relationship with the dance. And with every relationship you have in your life, there are ups, downs, good days, bad days, small quarrels, and huge blow up fights. Some days I have a great relationship with the dance. One day in particular I remember I was at Tango club freshman year with my performance dance partner and Tango and I were having a great night. I was nailing the steps, I was in tune with the music, and I felt excited rather than frustrated by the challenges I was working through with the dance. Tango and I were going strong and steady I felt this night. I could have stayed at Tango club for three more hours and never would have gotten tired nor bored. On the other hand, there are days when Tango and I are not having such a strong relationship. There have been days that I want to match my steps to the beat of the song, but I just can’t. Or I am trying to be present in the embrace, but I just don’t feel fulfilled by the embrace nor the dance. These are the days I would say that Tango and I are in a bit of a lovers quarrel. I don’t lose my love for the dance on these days, but I definitely do become frustrated and do not feel like speaking with Tango anymore that day.
ReplyDeleteSo how does my relationship with the Tango relate to my “breakthrough” this week? Well, on Tuesday when Ann had us close our eyes, I felt really good when dancing. My leader was doing an excellent job showing clear intent and also a huge amount of variety in our steps. He was even doing steps patterns we never exactly learned, but I still was able to follow and not step on his feet! Then, Ann had us come into a closer embrace and still keep our eyes closed. This was my “AH-HA!” moment. The song that was one was one I recognized because Ann plays it a lot and so I have started to really like it. Then, I felt my leader dance to the music! I felt in tune with the music and with my partner. Then, with my eyes closed, I really did feel like we were one unique mass- one body with four legs. I felt the communication. I felt the connection. This was my breath through. I finally felt what I think Tango should feel like! It felt comfortable and not awkward and FUN!
The most striking and unpredictable feeling I had during my “breakthrough” relates directly to the embrace. On my walk home, I was thinking about class and thought about what I felt. Why did that feel so normal? Why did that Tango dance and that embrace feel so correct? I realized that ironically, I actually felt nothing. I didn’t feel the embrace at all. Usually when I’m dancing, I notice the embrace. I am thinking, “Oh his left hand is too far in, or too far out, or perfect”. Or, I am thinking, “is my hand too far over his shoulder? Ok yes it is, I will adjust it. Ok now my balance is better.” And even if I am not adjusting something, I still notice the embrace. I am aware of where our hands are, where my axis is, where his axis is, how our chests are aligning, etc. Yet, in this one dance I didn’t notice any of this. All I noticed is that it felt right. I think this is when an embrace is right. I think a “correct” embrace is one in which you feel so comfortable and contained in this “nest” that it feels normal and natural- like it is second nature or something. This embrace- even though I’m sure it was not perfect – seemed like what a “good” embrace should be. Therefore, perfectly enough, my Tango breakthrough had to do with the embrace. So, mine and Tango’s relationship is pretty good right now… were strong and steady… at least for now. ☺
The fact that we were in the 5th week already aside, the tango has taken on a great role in my week. I look forward to each and every class, and every opportunity I get to dance and learn new steps. With every week, I feel my confidence and skill set growing. It is exciting to be able to feel the progress of my dancing. I have already found myself with a growing passion for the dance. Along with that comes my growing excitement and fascination with the entire lifestyle. I can not wait to see how my feelings for tango will evolve in the coming weeks through further experiences.
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